When you are trying to point out calmly how someone is hurting you then it turns into a crazy fight

“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” ~ Ephesians 4:31-32

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“Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’ To the contrary, ‘if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.’ Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” ~ Romans 12:19-21

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“For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” ~ Matthew 6:14-15

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“He who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats or harps on a matter separates even close friends.” ~ Proverbs 17:9

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“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” ~ 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

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“The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.” ~ Psalm 9:9

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“I have set the Lord always before me. Because he is at my right hand, I will not be shaken.” ~ Psalm 16:8